Saints and Suffering

Sometimes when I’m really really happy and life seems to be going well, I don’t quite trust it. A lifelong…

Losses

breathe through it I’ve been trying to “get over” some losses because even though I know better, the “just get…

SAVING GRACE

Loving Detachment When I desperately wanted to save my family from the ravages of the disease of alcoholism, I would…

RED LINE

I’m more interested in armor than vulnerability. In war, we don’t expose our throat to the enemy. When we are…

Hateful Things

Don’t say hateful things about people. These powerful people you’re raging at probably don’t care what hateful things you say…

Becoming A Collaborator

As I was flying home a United Airlines flight attendant told me the worst day she’d ever had at work…

Your Outrage Does Not Matter

Your outrage does not matter. Nor your attempts to foster empathy. This is about power. This administration feeds on –…

The Truth About Trump

If we were honest this is what we would we say to young girls listening to Donald Trump’s comments: I’m…