Watch out for those expectations…It’s a big grownup thing to make the distinction between hope and expectations. When we have hope we are open to the possibility that something will occur, perhaps even by our own efforts we *hope* to bring about a change. We hope a person we care about will do something, or […]

New Delusions Resolutions

Here comes the season of New Delusions Resolutions. Relentless ad campaigns aimed at stirring up your “imma be better” buying instincts. “Let me purchase this right now as a testament to my commitment.” Over this past year (or hell, be ambitious – last decade) you’ve made some changes, learned some important lessons, acquired new skills, […]