My rules for helping:

1. Go where you’re invited.
2. Do what you’re asked to do.
3. It ain’t help if they didn’t ask.
4. Listen twice. Help once.

I wish I could call these commandments. It’s okay to let people know what you can do – to let them know what’s available. But when they say “you know what we really need is ….” Believe them. So very important.